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bscreative 2012-5-31 07:38 AM

Same jobs, same things everyday!!

I work alone, I don't earn much just enough to cover my ass, I don't have friend to work with not even a business partner, sometime work late till freaking morning, everyday I just on my own, I had to pretend to be happy in-front of everybody, just don't wanna shown your mystery side, perhaps no one would realise I was here, friend don't contact me, maybe they don't like me at all, I kinna like inside a circle, can't break through, maybe I am the person who did not deserve to have a friend,  lonely..... than ever, fuck sake:')

hotelking 2012-5-31 12:00 PM

shittt.  haha. U have no friends... Why are you in hk then?



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newship 2012-5-31 03:36 PM

I emphasize you actually, even if you are not working alone, there could be such loneliness, and I sometimes feel like it doesn't matter whether I am here or not.
And that's the inertia: if people get used to contacting A, B and C every time they hang out, that become a habit; if for some reason C fades out and D joins, the group become A,B and D. Out of sight, out of mind, unless there are some considerate people who always take the initiative to take care of those who are neglected.
Try to give yourself a second chance, squeeze time to join some activities, catch up with some of your friends, and sometimes don't afraid to reveal your weakness to some trusted friends. Perhaps you'll find that there is a difference.
Good Luck!

bscreative 2012-5-31 04:33 PM

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I am not in HK

bscreative 2012-5-31 04:37 PM

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Thanks, I'll try, be honest with you those friend i've know, we haven't contact for more than 6 year or +, thanks for you advise, I know i needed to change.

hotelking 2012-5-31 06:39 PM

....if you have not contact them for 6 years or +, it means that they're busy or you dont want to talk to them...

bscreative 2012-5-31 10:41 PM

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Maybe... they were busy, I did send them cards or faceb**k birthday message, leave message on phones, hoping one day they will call me back, but it never happen, yeah yeah I know I know.... maybe I am ignoring.
I am so glad that if someone can tell me because is my personality or else, I promise I'll change. just let me know isn't it my problem? or maybe something i've done in the pass has upset them I'll say sorry to all my friends, I will and I mean it, thanks for listening "hotelking" by the way I am in UK

foonland 2012-6-2 03:54 AM

what is ur job?

nf4151 2012-6-2 07:58 AM

I know where you are coming from.   I have been there.  Tough to hang out with people from work because they all gossip and it gets to the boss.  So, I get some outlet by forums and that.  A few friends who I don't see that often, just text or on the phone.  Like they got busy lives and on a set of routines. If, in the past, one gets stabbed in the back, things come up in life that do not make a person trust many people. Especially, if it feels like that you got stabbed in that old emotional wound again.

manman919 2012-6-2 11:22 AM

u must to change your mind, everyday to thing negative, but not action and improve.life is enjoy the day, not just to say why why why, why i do not have fd, why my salary just enough to cover your ass, that is the main point, maybe u go to church that can help u.

bscreative 2012-6-5 05:22 PM

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Self-employ Graphic designer

bscreative 2012-6-5 05:25 PM

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Yeah you right, people like to talk behind other people back, I got use to it, it happen everyday

bscreative 2012-6-5 05:28 PM

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I did visit Sunday Church, visit the local market

nf4151 2012-6-6 06:00 AM

Keep active in getting out. Hang in there.  There will be good days and bad days.  Join some group to set a weekly meeting.  Maybe involving talking with people.

holychicken 2012-6-6 10:07 AM

come discuss chap chap more

8/8/2007 2012-6-7 09:24 AM

If you think you are qulified much, you can resign this job and find a new one.
In fact, you may get personal and career growth when you leave grom original company.

bscreative 2012-6-9 03:57 AM

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will do, thanks, I guess group meeting is important in HK

bscreative 2012-6-9 03:58 AM

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"Chap Chap"? what's that mean?

bscreative 2012-6-9 04:04 AM

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yeah you right, maybe I am a Hong Kong-ese in different world, I wish I can work in Hong Kong. I never work in Hong Kong or educate there I wonder what is look like, will I had more fun?

twojustfit 2012-6-9 07:36 PM

maybe u can bring your computer (i assume it's a laptop) to a different place, like cafe, starbucks, library and do your work there....maybe u'll meet some friends in those places

Good luck!

bscreative 2012-6-11 05:02 AM

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Graphic designer computer is not something that you can take away to somewhere you like, my laptop I use for internet or watch movies, desktop for design and re-prographic and PostScript RIP, England is different than Hong Kong, Café in England is different (I mean attitude) :smile_39:

ukardiscuz 2012-6-24 12:29 PM

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bscreative 2012-6-25 02:29 AM

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Hey Pal, your account is lock by discuss, I can't see what you trying to say:smile_41:

yoshiga 2012-6-26 08:03 PM

perhaps is time to change your jobs:smile_13:
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