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littlebug123 2013-11-10 01:25

[quote]原帖由 [i]macymacytoo[/i] 於 2013-11-10 01:22 AM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375394596&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]點解比人block左?:smile_o14: [/quote]因為版主睇到有滋事份子



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macymacytoo 2013-11-10 01:30

[quote]原帖由 [i]littlebug123[/i] 於 2013-11-10 01:25 AM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375394708&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
因為版主睇到有滋事份子



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哦... 咁佢講左兩句啫, 都好嚴呵

littlebug123 2013-11-10 01:38

[quote]原帖由 [i]macymacytoo[/i] 於 2013-11-10 01:30 AM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375395043&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]哦... 咁佢講左兩句啫, 都好嚴呵 [/quote]

佢一直由樓主之前一個帖糾纏到黎呢道。成日都話樓主錯,又唔講錯乜。咁根本唔係討論

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macymacytoo 2013-11-10 01:45

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佢一直由樓上之前一個帖糾纏到黎呢道。成日都話樓主錯,又唔講錯乜。咁根本唔係討論



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呀,原來如此,明白了



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MetroSYG 2013-11-10 01:55

[quote]原帖由 [i]macymacytoo[/i] 於 2013-11-10 01:12 AM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375393872&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
大家可能係同行:)
你講中一點: 好勇鬥狠但有需要嗎?
有人講過, trying to be man is a waste of woman

capable =\= bitching everywhere you go女人有自己的advantage, 唔使下下起哂"gong"

收入有返咁上下既男仕, 你問下佢地, 係想要一個capable 既老婆既, 佢pressure太大, 想有人分擔下

但capable之餘, 請你都要懂得做女人, 煮飯, 家務, appearance 要OK, 最好上床一流tim

無他既, 大家都有條件要求ma
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可能係,未請教 :handshake

Women who are able to beat men at their own game generally do so at the expense of the traditional female gender role. In many ways, it wouldn't be fair to ask these successful women to be a perfect man [i]and  [/i]a perfect woman at the same time.

Their ideal spouse is the stay-at-home-dad type. It's an outstanding match because responsibilities are clearly delineated and relatively fair. However, the woman has to fight the urge imprinted in her DNA to find a stronger man, one who she can worship and be dominated by. These are extremely powerful forces to overcome.

Household chores are easy fixes with maids, but you raised the most important point: sex. There's no outsourcing for this role, at least none that the wife would approve of lol. An inability to deliver on this aspect of female gender role would doom any marriage, or intimate relationships for that matter.

MetroSYG 2013-11-10 02:06

[quote]原帖由 [i]littlebug123[/i] 於 2013-11-10 01:25 AM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375394708&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
因為版主睇到有滋事份子
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版主 :smile_o12:

littlebug123 2013-11-10 02:36

[quote]原帖由 [i]MetroSYG[/i] 於 2013-11-10 01:55 AM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375396195&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]可能係,未請教 :handshake Women who are able to beat men at their own game generally do so at the expense of the traditional female gender role. In many ways, it wouldn't be fair to ask these  ... [/quote]照你咁講,女強人似乎無乜運行:smile_39:

老一輩阿媽教阿女比心機讀書,將來可以獨立,唔洗為兩餐一宿,委曲求存。但係到女人夠強同男人平起平坐時,又往往無左傳統女人本來唾手可得既野。



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MetroSYG 2013-11-10 02:58

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照你咁講,女強人似乎無乜運行:smile_39:

老一輩阿媽教阿女比心機讀書,將來可以獨立,唔洗為兩餐一宿,委曲求存。但係到女人夠強同男人平起平坐時,又往往無左傳統女人本來唾手可得既野。
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又未必既,但要 think outside the box,搵個主內既住家型男人,堪稱絕配!

其實,收入有返咁上下既女仕,亦唔需要一個高收入既老公 :smile_44:

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littlebug123 2013-11-10 03:37

[quote]原帖由 [i]MetroSYG[/i] 於 2013-11-10 02:58 AM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375398042&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]又未必既,但要 think outside the box,搵個主內既住家型男人,堪稱絕配!其實,收入有返咁上下既女仕,亦唔需要一個高收入既老公 :smile_44: [/quote]


Um...首講收入。女人唔一定因為要個男人養得起自己,至揀收入比自己高既男人。外國可能少d,但係中國女人,總係難d接受到人工職位比自己低既伴侶,at least都要差不多。原因,就exactly如你頭先所講,女人係希望搵一個比自己強,可以駕御自己既男人。一個住家男人,片面睇同強既女人最match。但係越強既女人其實越需要一個比自己更強既男人,響佢脆弱時可以依傍。又有能力間中比到hard time 佢鬥下氣,鬥下智,滿足下d好勝心。而太gentle聽話既男人,似乎只可以比到女人平靜既生活。攰既時候,仍然好似自己一個人響海中心咁孤獨無助。

所以男人/女人,其實都需要一個有智慧但識響適當時候扮蠢既better half.

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凍啡少甜 2013-11-10 08:56

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哦... 咁佢講左兩句啫, 都好嚴呵 [/quote]

唔嚴。佢係我另一個post搞左好耐。一直重覆問呢堆問題。意思係話我婚姻失敗都因為冇讀好書。冇份好工。早結婚生子。我有見及此。先開過呢個放出黎比大家參與一齊討論。睇下其他朋友見解。

其實一段婚姻有問題。太多變數。就算雙方學歷幾高。人工點好。突然間其中一方遇到一個所謂觸電式第三者。一樣出現危機。

我自問小女人仔一個。我好傳統。男主外。女主內。我以前都有番工幫補。收工真係連同朋友出去食餐飯都冇。全部精神放番哂係屋企。有時世事就係咁。唔一定可以完滿。感情世界唔可能當方程式咁去計算。當有第三者出現。你之前做既都係白費。



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凍啡少甜 2013-11-10 08:59

其實你講得岩架。

唉。。如果搵到大家精神上追求一樣既。就會好的。



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lake8899 2013-11-10 09:20

[quote]原帖由 [i]MetroSYG[/i] 於 2013-11-10 02:58 AM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375398042&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]


又未必既,但要 think outside the box,搵個主內既住家型男人,堪稱絕配!

其實,收入有返咁上下既女仕,亦唔需要一個高收入既老公 :smile_44: [/quote]

強女人都會係退而求其次。

不過戀愛嘅嘢好難講,女人遇到時睇法會唔同,戀愛大過天嘛。

另外,因應唔同年紀也可能有唔同要求。



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lake8899 2013-11-10 09:24

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Um...首講收入。女人唔一定因為要個男人養得起自己,至揀收入比自己高既男人。外國可能少d,但係中國女人,總係難d接受到人工職位比自己低既伴侶,at least都要差不多。原因,就exactly如你頭先所講,女人係希望搵 ... [/quote]

你講嘅應該係大部分女人嘅想法。

我識得有對夫婦,女主外,男主內。起初佢地嘅收入相差好遠,後來生咗仔後個男人全職湊仔。



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米高奧雲 2013-11-10 10:17

所以結婚,同買大細無分別

macymacytoo 2013-11-10 11:26

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可能係,未請教 :handshake

Women who are able to beat men at their own game generally do so at the expense of the traditional female gender role. In many ways, it wouldn't be fair to ask these  ... [/quote]
I push paper around for living lol :smile_30:

An ideal spouse is one that u love - regardless of what he or she does.  I always enjoy being a woman as the world today afford us to take best of both worlds - More opportunities to move up the social ladder while being the weaker one sometimes as we desire.  I always say, if u expect a gentleman pls be a lady yourself.  Right and duty comes hand in hand and the problem arise as some women are looking for a lot of things and forget what they need to pay for them.

Yes, it is tough to earn a good career and get a husband who's comparable, while ideally staying hot.  Lol.  But remember you when u have the world, it makes perfect sense to me that you need to work extra hard to keep and maintain it.

it's hard to serve your spouse good sex after a long day but if u enjoy it and not take it as an exercise / homework then it can be another thing.  This applies to men n women in my opinion.... Just my little two cents

macymacytoo 2013-11-10 11:33

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照你咁講,女強人似乎無乜運行:smile_39:

老一輩阿媽教阿女比心機讀書,將來可以獨立,唔洗為兩餐一宿,委曲求存。但係到女人夠強同男人平起平坐時,又往往無左傳統女人本來唾手可得既野。



[url=http://i.discuss]http://i.discuss[/url] ... [/quote]
女強人就冇運行,好似厳重左D喎 lol lol

媽咪教我地獨立,但冇教獨立之後就睇唔起人掛

仲有,世界上冇D乜野係唾手可得既,事業如是,幸福婚姻如是
上一輩在家中的傳統女人都很努力為頭家,任勞任怨先得一家人整整齊齊架

macymacytoo 2013-11-10 11:36

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又未必既,但要 think outside the box,搵個主內既住家型男人,堪稱絕配!

其實,收入有返咁上下既女仕,亦唔需要一個高收入既老公 :smile_44: [/quote]
人夾人緣,唔一定要住家型
咁樣做老公好大壓力呀

macymacytoo 2013-11-10 11:39

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Um...首講收入。女人唔一定因為要個男人養得起自己,至揀收入比自己高既男人。外國可能少d,但係中國女人,總係難d接受到人工職位比自己低既伴侶,at least都要差不多。原因,就exactly如你頭先所講,女人係希望搵 ... [/quote]
嘩........好滄桑咁喎
哈哈......其實兩個人既chemistry 又好難公式化去睇既

macymacytoo 2013-11-10 11:46

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唔嚴。佢係我另一個post搞左好耐。一直重覆問呢堆問題。意思係話我婚姻失敗都因為冇讀好書。冇份好工。早結婚生子。我有見及此。先開過呢個放出黎比大家參與一齊討論。睇下其他朋友見解。

其實一段婚姻有問題 ... [/quote]
我贊成你所講
書讀得再多而不明道理既,都無需同佢計較啦
緣份如果要盡,再多經營,有幾多沙紙都係使氣:smile_39:

凍啡少甜 2013-11-10 13:26

絕對認同。我同你想法一樣。一段緣份可以用沙紙搭夠就唔叫緣份



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MetroSYG 2013-11-10 14:17

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Um...首講收入。女人唔一定因為要個男人養得起自己,至揀收入比自己高既男人。外國可能少d,但係中國女人,總係難d接受到人工職位比自己低既伴侶,at least都要差不多。原因,就exactly如你頭先所講,女人係希望搵 ... [/quote]

認同大部份妳所講既 :)

至於點解我覺得女強人和住家男人係一個好配搭,或者用一個非洲草原既比喻會較易明

一頭特別大隻、好打既獅子乸,會搵咩伴侶?DNA 會驅使佢去搵草原上最大隻既獅子王!

獅子乸比女強人幸運既地方,係當佢搵到獅子王,唔會發現對方係已婚,唔娶得佢,因為獅子並無違反自然定律既一夫一妻制

但女強人也有比獅子乸幸運既地方:佢智慧高,唔一定要遵循DNA定落既規矩。當發現向上望冇咩選擇時,她可以轉變



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MetroSYG 2013-11-10 14:32

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你講嘅應該係大部分女人嘅想法。

我識得有對夫婦,女主外,男主內。起初佢地嘅收入相差好遠,後來生咗仔後個男人全職湊仔。



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西方社會比較多呢類型夫妻,中國人所受既壓力會大得多,男女都係

其實女強人行既路,從一開始都係非傳統既:讀書鬥贏男人,職場上再鬥贏男人…

點解到左談婚論嫁,就突然變得傳統起黎?她比男人更男人,但玩傳統女性既遊戲,她會輸俾大部份女人!



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MetroSYG 2013-11-10 14:44

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I push paper around for living lol :smile_30:

An ideal spouse is one that u love - regardless of what he or she does.  I always enjoy being a woman as the world today afford us to take best of bo ... [/quote]

Agree with most of what you said, especially the part about being a lady while demanding men to be gentlemen. This is the crux of the problem for many women who end up single. One-way relationships are not healthy and do not last.

The age-old question:
1) marry the love of your life, or
2) marry someone who love you the most

What would be your choice?



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brotherman 2013-11-10 16:01

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Agree with most of what you said, especially the part about being a lady while demanding men to be gentlemen. This is the crux of the problem for many women who end up single. One-way relationship ... [/quote]

It is sad but true that many people even do not have the opportunity to make these choices



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jenniferyiu8080 2013-11-10 16:16

[quote]原帖由 [i]米高奧雲[/i] 於 2013-11-10 10:17 AM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375407368&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
所以結婚,同買大細無分別 [/quote]


呢個又真 !!

littlebug123 2013-11-10 16:19

[quote]原帖由 [i]macymacytoo[/i] 於 2013-11-10 11:33 AM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375411467&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]女強人就冇運行,好似厳重左D喎 lol lol媽咪教我地獨立,但冇教獨立之後就睇唔起人掛仲有,世界上冇D乜野係唾手可得既,事業如是,幸福婚姻如是上一輩在家中的傳統女人都很努力為頭家,任勞任怨先 ... [/quote]又唔係話d強既女人睇唔起人,而係男人普遍都唔會approach人工、職位比佢高既女人。咁變相呢班女人已經少左可配對既對象。

我指既唾手可得,係講緊一個擁有婚姻既機會,唔係一段幸福婚姻可以唾手可得。以前,女人讀完書,做幾年野,結婚生仔好似係必然。



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littlebug123 2013-11-10 16:21

[quote]原帖由 [i]macymacytoo[/i] 於 2013-11-10 11:39 AM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375411805&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]嘩........好滄桑咁喎哈哈......其實兩個人既chemistry 又好難公式化去睇既 [/quote]認同

所以咪有人幸福有人苦lor。



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littlebug123 2013-11-10 16:26

[quote]原帖由 [i]MetroSYG[/i] 於 2013-11-10 02:17 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375421310&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]認同大部份妳所講既 :)至於點解我覺得女強人和住家男人係一個好配搭,或者用一個非洲草原既比喻會較易明一頭特別大隻、好打既獅子乸,會搵咩伴侶?DNA 會驅使佢去搵草原上最大隻既獅子王!獅子 ... [/quote]都未必ga
而家有d女人,似乎已經無左道德觀念。只要係筍盤,傷害人,破壞人婚姻都無所謂:smile_45:



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