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littlebug123 2013-11-11 22:02

[quote]原帖由 [i]macymacytoo[/i] 於 2013-11-11 09:55 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375524865&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]少少心態問題,好男人難求,女的爭得你死我活才可共偕連理,爭得累了,結婚以後視為上岸,而非視婚姻為另一個遊戲既開始(比喻很差但希望你明白)婚姻要維持要經營,女的筍盤到手,興奮得忘記了我經驗係, ... [/quote]怪現象,非要嫁一次不可,亂咁嫁,之後又離婚,自找麻煩:smile_39:



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macymacytoo 2013-11-11 22:04

[quote]原帖由 [i]MetroSYG[/i] 於 2013-11-11 09:47 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375524248&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]


You're right - I did a heckuva test driving :smile_30: But it takes a long time to really get to know someone, and you can only guess how a person would respond under severe stress...

The infor ... [/quote]
LOL... hey i don't blame you for that, we all do test driving :smile_04:  - it's an big investment at the end - oh btw, how did the last car go? :smile_46:
don't know about you, but I rely my on my business judgement in and outside workproved pretty ok - if you need consultancy services or professional benchmarking, let me know, I charge by hours

MetroSYG 2013-11-11 22:06

[quote]原帖由 [i]macymacytoo[/i] 於 2013-11-11 09:27 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375522933&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
Lol missed this message - yes there's an ongoing cultural benchmarking but also market size is so limited to allow efficient matching - I can sell a stock to anyone who pays, sometime through an exchange but the # of single men in my social circle is soooo limited

But think abt risk and return- if I invested my whole youth n precious years in this one guy, I bet on him by taking risks - if it doesn't work out I m screwed.  The upside is I can make a lot of money (have a good hubby) if he's a hidden gem

Now the problem is - miss strong wants low risk investment. She's established so she wants strong cash flow to come in from day 1 - how can u argue that?
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Yup, very limited market size. The love market is [b]illiquid[/b]. After making their choices, most are more or less stuck, all-in with a long-term investment.

Illiquid markets are by nature inefficient.

macymacytoo 2013-11-11 22:19

[quote]原帖由 [i]littlebug123[/i] 於 2013-11-11 10:02 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375525343&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
怪現象,非要嫁一次不可,亂咁嫁,之後又離婚,自找麻煩:smile_39:



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而家我地係兩個時代中間
女既比以前叻但走唔出傳統框架(中國人社會尤其)
魚與熊掌都想要
反覌男既心態上變化好似冇咁大
佢地拈花惹草幾千年都係咁,基因如此,唔鼓吹,但係事實



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MetroSYG 2013-11-11 22:22

[quote]原帖由 [i]macymacytoo[/i] 於 2013-11-11 09:27 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375522933&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
But think abt risk and return- if I invested my whole youth n precious years in this one guy, I bet on him by taking risks - if it doesn't work out I m screwed.  The upside is I can make a lot of money (have a good hubby) if he's a hidden gem

Now the problem is - miss strong wants low risk investment. She's established so she wants strong cash flow to come in from day 1 - how can u argue that?
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Higher return always come with higher risks, unless it's a pyramid scheme :P

For what Ms Strong wants, I believe the closest investment analogy is a [b]non-agency MBS[/b]. Many of these were rated 'AAA' back in '05-07. "Risk-free" 6%+ returns :o  But we know what happen to too-good-to-be-true investments ;P

MetroSYG 2013-11-11 22:26

[quote]原帖由 [i]macymacytoo[/i] 於 2013-11-11 10:04 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375525517&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
LOL... hey i don't blame you for that, we all do test driving :smile_04:  - it's an big investment at the end - oh btw, how did the last car go? :smile_46:
don't know about you, but I rely my on my ... [/quote]

Like a LP640: gas-guzzling, high maintenance and can run of gas driving down the road :smile_39: It sure is a thrill to drive and look marvelous though :smile_47:

Sure, nice to meet you :loveliness: :handshake

macymacytoo 2013-11-11 22:29

[quote]原帖由 [i]MetroSYG[/i] 於 2013-11-11 10:06 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375525604&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]


Yup, very limited market size. The love market is illiquid. After making their choices, most are more or less stuck, all-in with a long-term investment.

Illiquid markets are by nature inefficie ... [/quote]
David Swensen, CIO for Yale Endowment Fund, argues that liquidity comes with a premium.  People who don't need the liquidity can thus lock in their investments for longer periods and get good deals because they can avoid the premium - then we come back to what I just said, risk and return.  I lock it in, seed it and let it grow vs a day trade strategy (or multiple test drivings :smile_04:) - it's your choice bro

hm... maybe we should stop talking about financial theories before being kicked to the Finance board... LOL

macymacytoo 2013-11-11 22:32

[quote]原帖由 [i]MetroSYG[/i] 於 2013-11-11 10:22 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375526629&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]


Higher return always come with higher risks, unless it's a pyramid scheme :P

For what Ms Strong wants, I believe the closest investment analogy is a non-agency MBS. Many of these were rated 'A ... [/quote]
LOL... yea... many ms strong wouldn't know what the heck you are talking about MBS
to make it easier, the market crashes when risk and return doesn't sync... something that looks too good to be true, it probably is LOL

littlebug123 2013-11-11 22:34

你地繼續la, as long as 無離題,相信版主會歡迎咁生動又富教育意義既討論:P

總好過不停睇搵人工幾多,咩學歴:smile_30:



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macymacytoo 2013-11-11 22:39

[quote]原帖由 [i]MetroSYG[/i] 於 2013-11-11 10:26 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375526932&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]


Like a LP640: gas-guzzling, high maintenance and can run of gas driving down the road :smile_39: It sure is a thrill to drive and look marvelous though :smile_47:

Sure, nice to meet you :lovel ... [/quote]

haha... good for you bro.  I m just a BMW myself, well, maybe a Porsche at most.  As a benchmark, I guess my profile (in and out) beats most of the Japanese cars which dominate the market.  nice to meet you too :smile_04::smile_04:
(i hope i wouldn't get beaten up by saying this loud here) LOL

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macymacytoo 2013-11-11 22:46

[quote]原帖由 [i]littlebug123[/i] 於 2013-11-11 10:34 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375527618&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
你地繼續la, as long as 無離題,相信版主會歡迎咁生動又富教育意義既討論:P

總好過不停睇搵人工幾多,咩學歴:smile_30:



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師兄勁我好多,我只係識皮毛,我唔知醜拋下書包開下玩笑,唔好見怪



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littlebug123 2013-11-11 22:48

[quote]原帖由 [i]macymacytoo[/i] 於 2013-11-11 10:46 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375528549&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]師兄勁我好多,我只係識皮毛,我唔知醜拋下書包開下玩笑,唔好見怪 [/quote]真心ga:loveliness:



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MetroSYG 2013-11-11 22:48

[quote]原帖由 [i]macymacytoo[/i] 於 2013-11-11 10:19 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375526442&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
而家我地係兩個時代中間
女既比以前叻但走唔出傳統框架(中國人社會尤其)
魚與熊掌都想要
反覌男既心態上變化好似冇咁大
佢地拈花惹草幾千年都係咁,基因如此,唔鼓吹,但係事實
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認同!:smile_38:

macymacytoo 2013-11-11 22:56

[quote]原帖由 [i]littlebug123[/i] 於 2013-11-11 10:48 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375528729&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
真心ga:loveliness:



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haha...大家傾下講下先開心, 唔好一兩個人dominate哂
:smile_52::smile_52:

MetroSYG 2013-11-11 22:59

[quote]原帖由 [i]macymacytoo[/i] 於 2013-11-10 09:37 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375445428&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
獅子既世界𥚃面一向都係女主外,男就 un un腳
対獅子乸來說係咪都係佢出去揾食㗎啦

其實你所謂既改變講到底都係兩個人既磨合
Sheryl Sandberg Facebook COO 夠強啦
佢老公係CEO, 佢地奉行shared parenting
我覺得只要搵啱人,任何方式都可以,開心就得喇
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乜獅子公咁正既咩 :smile_14:

Sheryl Sandberg - good example! 仲有 Marissa Mayer (Yahoo!), Meg Whitman (HP, eBay) 都係

littlebug123 2013-11-11 23:00

[quote]原帖由 [i]macymacytoo[/i] 於 2013-11-11 10:56 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375529338&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]haha...大家傾下講下先開心, 唔好一兩個人dominate哂:smile_52::smile_52: [/quote]之前夜晚都係一個人dominate哂:smile_44:

有多d新睇法至有得繼續討論



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macymacytoo 2013-11-11 23:09

[quote]原帖由 [i]MetroSYG[/i] 於 2013-11-11 10:59 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375529554&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]


乜獅子公咁正既咩 :smile_14:

Sheryl Sandberg - good example! 仲有 Marissa Mayer (Yahoo!), Meg Whitman (HP, eBay) 都係 [/quote]
discovery channel 話係架...
你係咪有D後悔?  LOL LOL

hoho1906 2013-11-11 23:10

我都覺得根本無關係,是個人既問題.

macymacytoo 2013-11-11 23:11

[quote]原帖由 [i]littlebug123[/i] 於 2013-11-11 11:00 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375529611&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
之前夜晚都係一個人dominate哂:smile_44:

有多d新睇法至有得繼續討論



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佢冇再搞, 唔好再上心喇:loveliness:

MetroSYG 2013-11-11 23:12

[quote]原帖由 [i]macymacytoo[/i] 於 2013-11-11 10:29 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375527177&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
David Swensen, CIO for Yale Endowment Fund, argues that liquidity comes with a premium.  People who don't need the liquidity can thus lock in their investments for longer periods and get good deals because they can avoid the premium - then we come back to what I just said, risk and return.  I lock it in, seed it and let it grow vs a day trade strategy (or multiple test drivings :smile_04:) - it's your choice bro

hm... maybe we should stop talking about financial theories before being kicked to the Finance board... LOL
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Good point about liquidity premium, I wish I have his time horizon though :smile_45:

The thing about long-term investments: it's great if you picked Tencent IPO, but when the index is stuck in a trading range for years, most stocks also are...

MetroSYG 2013-11-11 23:18

[quote]原帖由 [i]macymacytoo[/i] 於 2013-11-11 10:32 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375527472&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
LOL... yea... many ms strong wouldn't know what the heck you are talking about MBS
to make it easier, the market crashes when risk and return doesn't sync... something that looks too good to be true, it probably is LOL
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yeah, too good to be true... no risk, high return ;P

Sorta like getting Prince Charming with minimal efforts :smile_04:

MetroSYG 2013-11-11 23:21

[quote]原帖由 [i]macymacytoo[/i] 於 2013-11-11 10:39 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375527997&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
haha... good for you bro.  I m just a BMW myself, well, maybe a Porsche at most.  As a benchmark, I guess my profile (in and out) beats most of the Japanese cars which dominate the market.  nice to meet you too :smile_04::smile_04:
(i hope i wouldn't get beaten up by saying this loud here) LOL
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I think it's ok to say so in English, most don't read it :smile_44: ;P

Porsche 911: the perfect exotic car :smile_o12: Perfect blend of performance and daily driveability!

macymacytoo 2013-11-11 23:22

[quote]原帖由 [i]MetroSYG[/i] 於 2013-11-11 11:12 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375530591&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]


Good point about liquidity premium, I wish I have his time horizon though :smile_45:

The thing about long-term investments: it's great if you picked Tencent IPO, but when the index is stuck in ... [/quote]
ah, he's talking about 10-15 years... it was like 20 years ago when you graduated... LOL LOL... I am just kiding

macymacytoo 2013-11-11 23:23

[quote]原帖由 [i]MetroSYG[/i] 於 2013-11-11 11:18 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375531127&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]


yeah, too good to be true... no risk, high return ;P

Sorta like getting Prince Charming with minimal efforts :smile_04: [/quote]
see, people say Finance is good for nothing. it is actually so applicable to our lives :smile_30::smile_30:

macymacytoo 2013-11-11 23:24

[quote]原帖由 [i]MetroSYG[/i] 於 2013-11-11 11:21 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375531353&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]


I think it's ok to say so in English, most don't read it :smile_44: ;P

Porsche 911: the perfect exotic car :smile_o12: Perfect blend of performance and daily driveability! [/quote]
:loveliness::loveliness:
i think we have had enough cars and finance for tonight :smile_30:

jenniferyiu8080 2013-11-11 23:39

[quote]原帖由 [i]Chrisyu88[/i] 於 2013-11-11 09:17 AM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375481250&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
十年前 我老公啱啱讀完lve 出黎去左一間好大建築公司 做初級工程司 13000  當時佢又卡數 又養父母 又夜晚進修 當時拍拖 都知佢無$ 其實2個人一齊最緊要開心 hk 好多地好靚 又唔冼用今多$ 有一班好朋友 去 ... [/quote]n



呢個似我.

MetroSYG 2013-11-11 23:39

[quote]原帖由 [i]macymacytoo[/i] 於 2013-11-11 11:09 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375530385&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
discovery channel 話係架...
你係咪有D後悔?  LOL LOL
[/quote]

投錯胎 :smile_39:

MetroSYG 2013-11-11 23:44

[quote]原帖由 [i]macymacytoo[/i] 於 2013-11-11 11:22 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375531398&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
ah, he's talking about 10-15 years... it was like 20 years ago when you graduated... LOL LOL... I am just kiding
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haha, hasn't been that long yet, still remember the good times :smile_40:

macymacytoo 2013-11-11 23:46

[quote]原帖由 [i]MetroSYG[/i] 於 2013-11-11 11:44 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375532909&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]


haha, hasn't been that long yet, still remember the good times :smile_40: [/quote]
it's ok, i don't discriminate old people :smile_38::smile_38:
men are like wine, they get better with agesLOL LOL

MetroSYG 2013-11-11 23:56

[quote]原帖由 [i]macymacytoo[/i] 於 2013-11-11 11:46 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=375533080&ptid=22648905][img]http://www.discuss.com.hk/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
it's ok, i don't discriminate old people :smile_38::smile_38:
men are like wine, they get better with agesLOL LOL [/quote]

Still have my hair :smile_30:

Yeah we age like fine wine :smile_34:
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